Commentario de verdadero natura de los Hombres
Por Sr. Harvie Vallejo
From the beginning of time Man had always seek the reasons of their existence, questions like where did I come from, how where I made, why do I exist, are always supplemented by answers that are at times purely Mythological, Fantastical, Fables and sometimes are Factual, these upholds and supports their beliefs in their group or religion, but this seeking of man, only proves that he is aware and conscious of a greater being who created him, and formed him into existence, who made him for reasons that he and he alone could understand (that is Man himself); why he alone could understand? Because reasons for existence, if you are going to ask men, are not universal, perhaps my reason is different form yours, or your reason is different from mine or from other persons, if you are going to ask each person what’s his personal reason for existence, he is going to enumerate or list things that he thought to be the answers, that’s why I say each person has different reason that only he could understand, this reasons could also be called mission, mission that directs each person into the things he ought to do or the actions he should take to achieve it, But there is a highest reason or mission for existence, the most noblest and righteous reason is “To Love”,.
God who existed before time, existed to Love, for Love, and by Love, He who called himself Love cannot be Love if he Doesn’t know how to Love, you cannot be a mathematicians if you don’t know mathematics, you cannot be a teacher if you don’t know how to teach, God is the same, not that God can be restricted in what he wills, or to be constrained in human wisdom, but He formed and created all things to reveal his Love, and to be recipients of his Love, this is demonstrated when he created all things for His Love, and it reach its zenith when he sent his only begotten son our Lord Jesus Christ, to save us from eternal damnation, for it is written “For God so Love the world that He Gave his only Begotten Son” and since Human beings where created in His Image and Likeness it is also proper and fitting to say that Human Beings where created to Love, be Love, and to be transmitter of the Love of God to his Fellow men, so by this realization we could joyfully conclude without a single doubt that the Nature of Man is To Love.
El Natura
From childhood man shows it’s capability to received love and to give love, before a child is born his parents shows their love by buying gifts, buying the necessity of the child, (though this involves worldly things this doesn’t take the act of love that the parents showed in providing their child everything they need, for it is common knowledge that parents always think of the welfare of their children) and again by letting the child feels their love by way of caressing the womb, murmuring words of adornment, or by even conversing to their child. When the child is born often all things were done by the parents to ensure that the child is well protected, loved, cared for, well provided, sometimes we could not take the possibility that parents lack money, but even though that they could not give everything that the child needs still love is showed to and given in abundance. Love is shown in action, and in words, but we cannot possible put into letters how human beings express and show there love to one another, for it won’t give justification to such a noble deed, it is enough to say that parents Love their Children, though at some points there are some whom we may say unworthy to be called parents, but we cannot conclude or assume that thy are incapable of love, no matter how evil a person is, love would still be present in his heart no matter what he does to deny it, to hide it, or to trash it’s importance he still love, willingly or unwillingly, love is a like the air we breath, the water we drink, or the food we eat, it is part of our humanity and of our soul, it cannot be taken out, or be hindered, or to be disregarded as mere feeling or emotion, a human being cannot live without love, how can this be? For example if you are going to raised a child, and you are going to instill in him an extreme animosity to all people, he is going indeed to hate and to loath, but sooner or later he will still learn how to love, if he see the goodness in other people he will conquer this animosity and will discover love, or if a man is banished in an island where he is alone, he may exist, but he will feel void, or baseless in his being, as if he is incomplete, and another thing, we human beings from childhood until death are always in search of love, love from our parents, from our friends, from our neighbor, and all those around us, and they in return seek our love, this give and take attitude is important for us that if neglected or if not given or shown we feel lacking, we feel that something is missing in our person, in our life, that something is wanting and as if a big void exist in our being, for God created men to be wanting, or lacking, not that He will’s evil, but so that man will seek love, to complete him, and by seeking love he seek God, and for him to feel whole he needs to love and be love, we can liken it to night and day, or men and women, or the two side of a coin, that for these to be called whole they must join each other, for neither cannot exist without the other or vice versa, men need to love and be love to be whole, and also by loving we become united to God, how can this be? Since God is Love himself, it’s essence, its origin or beginning, when we love we become united to God since we take part in His nature, we share in his love, we become essence or fountain of love to our neighbor, how?, first we became recipient of His love then after we have received His love and be filed with it’s essence, we become transmitter of His love, love justify our nature, and by fulfilling it we not only do good to our self but to those whom we share it, a man cannot say he doesn’t love, for first, it’s like saying he doesn’t feel anything, and that would be preposterous, for emotions is a very part of a person, if a man let’s say doesn’t love his parents, due to reason or to a certain motives that he alone knows, then love will find a way to be express, so along will come his friends ready to be recipient of his love, if still he doesn’t love his friends, then love will find another way to be express, by a nice girl or women whom he shall meet and call his wife, if he still doesn’t love his wife then along come his children, if he still doesn’t love his children, then his neighbors will come inn ready to accept his love, if he will still not love then inordinate love will enter, that is love of earthly things, love of the world, of power, of money, and everything that we may say is center only to his self so even though he didn’t showed his love to other beings he still loved through or by loving himself, and that’s what we called self love.
Categoria de Los Amores
Now let us try to categorize love into two category, first category, Ordinate love, and second category inordinate love.
1. What is ordinate love? Ordinate love is love showed to persons or beings, this love follows the commandment of God, and gives fulfillment to our nature, example of this love are love of parents, love of neighbor, love of relatives, of friends, of enemies etc. this love is called ordinate because it is ordained by God that men should love one another, and further more that his nature should be Love, but since God is all just, all knowing and omnipotent, he gave men the power to choose, if he would go against his nature, or if he would justify it. Ordinate Love is divided into two kinds, Phillia and Agrripa,
· Phillia love is the highest Kind of Love for this is Love of God, the ancient Greeks who first termed this word never use it because they thought that it was impossible for God to love human beings who are weak, it was the first Christians who use this because Christ gave truth to it, when God sent His only Begotten Son to save us from eternal damnation he gave essence to this form of love thus he proved that He is really the God of Love, who loved human beings since the beginning of time, and that Love between God and human beings existed, and can exist.
Some people will say, “How can we love God if he is unseen,?” truly it is difficult for us to love someone, whom we do not see, sometimes we even find it hard to love our neighbor whom we see what more God who is Spirit, but in this question God already given His answer, he said “what you do to the least of your brethren you did it to me” or to be more precise “for I was hungry and you gave me food, thirsty and you gave me drink, naked and you gave me cloth, imprisoned and you visited me, then the sinners will say when did you we see you in this state Lord? And he will answer, for whatsoever you do to the least of your brethren you did it to me,” this is the answer that God gave men so that they would have no reason to justify their wrong doings, God even simplified the commandment so that men could easily follow it, he said “love God with all your heart, body and soul, and love your neighbor as you love yourself” this simplification of the commandment also gave human beings a simple but precise law that if followed faithfully would help him attain life everlasting, and this can be found in the Holy Writ, that for men to love God he must show his love to his neighbor, before he could say that he love God, for Saint John said “he who said that he love God but doesn’t love his fellow is a liar, for how can he say that he love God who is sprit if he doesn’t love his fellow whom he sees” there is no need of a longer or specific explanation in this matter, it is quite simple and can be easily understand, first for a man to love God he must love his fellow, if he love his fellow he not only follows the 1st commandment but the entire commandments
· Agrripa love is a love shown towards family, relatives, friends, lover and fellows, like Phillia which is the most noble form of love, Agrripa is also noble but this love precede that of Phillia, and it’s degree is also the same with Phillia, It also has the essence of the Love of God, and a form of love that builds and complete all those who are in it’s center, this kind of love, is a just and complete love, for it is not jealous, ill will, but rather it is kind, it doesn’t rejoice in evil but rejoice in good, it accept who you are, and is patient in all your failings, it is humble, not proud and conceited, it believes in all things, endures in all things and hope in all things.
2. What is inordinate Love? Inordinate love is love that is only centered in self, it only think of it’s own self as the most important of all, and trash everything as insignificant, it is categorized by selfishness, greed, lust, envy, slothfulness, thirst for power, for money, and for all things that could give him pleasure, satisfaction in this life, fame, and wealth. This form of love is dived in to two parts, Eros and material.
·Eros love as symbolize by Cupid is an immature and childish kind of love, it is only centered in self, and only think of how to achieve pleasures or satisfaction at the expense of the person whom they pledge to love, it is uncaring, not sympathetic, and greedy, it is like a Cup that after you use it, you return it to the cupboard where it stay’s until the time that you need to use it again, this kind of love doesn’t last for when the receiver thinks that he doesn’t anymore receive the pleasure that he wants’ or need’s, he usually leave behind the giver to find someone who could satisfies him, and thus love of this sort is not proper love at all.
· Material love is love of worldly things, the accumulation of wealth, of power, and of fame, and this kind of love is selfish, envious, gluttonous, proud, conceited, and evil, for like Eros it only thinks of achieving everything for the good of oneself, and would do everything to retain it or to increase it at the expense of others.
These are the brief explanation on the kinds of love; for love in itself is a very broad subject therefore the author tried it’s best to summarizes it and to give justification to it.